Welcome to my profile
The words below come from the heart
thats what makes them so special
and was written at a time when i thought i couldn't go on with my life.
Jealousy is a Ugly word and has no place in my life.
I have a kind, caring, nature and talk to most people.
But Some things are best left unsaid.
Just be Yourself !!! I Am.
It Keeps the mind wondering!
Ive seen people come and people go on here .
If thats what you want then thats Ok.
Ive learned alot from joining this site.
I know that even people we cannot see can still hurt...
Ive been hurt and im sure ive hurt some-one along the way..(Sorry)
I am Me! and no one can change me!!
Sex is a important part of any relationship.
But what do you do with the rest of the time you are together?
If sex is all you have than seriously there is a big problem.
I do not need to tell you this as im sure you already know.
So untill then stay strong and always respect yourself..
People can take your heart, but they can never take your pride ...
Never forget that! Without our respect for ourselves we have nothing..
Hold onto your dreams with-out them we are dead inside..
Remember words cost nothing when you are sending your next message..
You could make some-one Smile and to some people thats all they have.
Yes, My profile is long. and I believe in all that I have written
and have said what most others would only think to themselves
and never dream about writing down...
If you want to know me as a person and try to understand me.
Then Read on. If not, please leave now
Really you want to carry on???
Ok
There is the you that the rest of the world sees.
And then there is the you that is really, truly, you.
Sometimes we can become so very concerned about our image.
Worried about what others think.
That the real person inside can get lost!
There is much more to me than what people see.
And if you pay attention you can know the difference.
The you that is really you is not there to cause pain,
but to experience fulfilment and happiness.
In fact the pain comes mostly from keeping the real you hidden away.
Outer success may appear to require that we keep the real person repressed and forgotten.
Yet anything that is gained by denying who we truly are is empty meaningless
and not worth the effort.
Strength comes when what is on the outside finds strength and substance from what is on the inside.
Life has true meaning when what you do is based on who you know you really are.
Your world is a mirror The reflection you see depends on the person you are.
There are those who do it for show .
And there are those who deal with it for real.
There are people who tell you what they think you want to hear.
And there are those friends who respect you enough to always speak the Truth.
Some just go through the motions
There are those who sincerely seek the Truth.
We can get by awhile just living on the surface of life,
feeding on those things that are empty.
Then there will come a time , when you you will want and need something deeper.
Something with real inner peace.
You will one-day wonder why you ever wasted your time with shallow, insignificant things.
The sooner we live for real, True to who we are, the better life will be..
We were not born to hide. We were born to live! The life we experience today is a result of what we have have been in the past.
Be some-one who listens , and you will be heard.
Be some-one who cares, and you will be loved.
Be some-one who gives comfort and you will know Inner peace
Above all be some-one whos kind, considerate, some-one who values truth, and you will be Respected.
Take action in your life and you will move Forward.
People who tell you only what you want to hear do so for their own benefit.
Those friends that challenge you , whether they intend to help you or not, do indeed help you grow stronger.
Those who give you everything you want without asking anything in return can end up making you powerless and overly dependant.
Those who let you get away with lying , or cheating, will push you steadily towards despair.
People who hold you accountable for all you do will help you build True and lasting self esteem. Those who truly care about us are not always the easiest to be around.
For they will consistently hold us to the highest standards. Freedom is an empowering and sobering concept.
It gives us the opportunity to succeed and fail.
Freedom allows us to make our way in life.
Freedom and responsibility simply cannot exist apart from each other.
We can be truly free only by being totally responsible for our life and its actions. Though millions have died for it, and most would choose freedom over any alternative,
freedom can at times be frightening.
If often imposes difficult decisions, and requires valiant effort to maintain.
Though freedom is indisputably the best course it is seldom the easiest. Yet freedom is worth the effort, for it is a human catalyst that has No equal.
To be free means being your own person, with your own purpose, and passion, and Integrity. Above all be true to your-self and you will always be Free.
Whatever you do in this life do it without hesitation...
Tommorow maybe too late!
Do not wait to tell or show some-one how much you love them.
There is never a right time. There is just Now!
My Point....................
I know that when your heart can be breaking people on here only want smiling happy faces.. Life is not perfect..
So if you pm me or decide to say hello,
remember i have feelings and i just hide them inside my Soul.
I may have finally found a inner peace and i know that cannot be bought or sold.
"For every minute, every hour, every day even every year that we spend on this earth we must be grateful, that it is not our last".
We must also realise that life is changing all the time and we never know when our time will be to pass on to a different plain.
What i am saying is live life like its your last day on this earth.
"For those who know, your time is near, don't be afraid to dissapear, for all you've done and all you've learned will never be lost in this world".
Ive realised who my True friends are and it does not matter anymore that the friends i thought were True are Not.
I am True to Myself and thats all i can be!!!
People may shoot me with words, they may cut me like a knife.
But up from a past that will be forever routed in pain.
I will Rise and be a much Stronger Person ! ! ! !
Thank you for your time in reading this, John